I'm tired of trying to be perfect

I’m MJ and I’ve struggled with low self-worth my whole life and have tried to be “perfect” on the outside or at least create the illusion of perfect and it's been eating at me for years.

While being in quarantine alone and stuck with myself at home for 8+ hours a day I had to talk myself out of a spiral that would go on for the rest of my life if I didn’t get a handle on it.

I was drained. Trying to have the perfect body wasn’t working and I didn’t know what else to do. I had to look within and come to the conclusion that the only way I could change the way I felt about myself is if I came to terms with my insecurities and learned how to deal with them.

I’ve been trying to find out who I really am and what makes me, me and it’s been quite a journey already. I created this page because I want to support women out there who think that they’re alone with their insecurities. Women who have been unshakably insecure with their bodies since they were very young. Women who think that they shouldn’t feel insecure because they are “in shape” or “skinny.” Women who are coming to terms with their weight gains and are trying to dress for their new body. Women who have struggled to put clothes together since day one.

My heart goes out to anyone who thinks they're alone right now. I want you to know that you have so much to offer and that the value of your worth is priceless. It can take a long time to work through these deep-rooted struggles. But that’s why I created this space because I never had other women to talk to when I was going through my inner battles. I want to be there for you.

The difference between where I was then vs. where I am now is that I’ve sat down and learned how to cope with my insecurities, I’ve also accepted them for the first time in my life and strived to take care of myself and just be okay with not being perfect all the time because it’s exhausting!😅

I choose for this not to be my identity, do you?

If this is something you're trying to work through and you need guidance, or literally just wanna vent, I’m here for you!😊 We can all learn from each other and feel a little less alone when it comes to this stuff.❤️